The Soul Care Podcast

Episode 7 - Pastor Paul Tautges, Author of Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ

Episode #7 Show Notes
Host: Dr. Warren Lamb
Guest: Pastor Paul Tautges
Topic: “Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ”
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, host Warren Lamb interviews Paul Tautges, a respected voice in the world of biblical counseling and soul care. They discuss Tautges' new book, "Remade: Experiencing Your Complete Identity in Christ," which explores the importance of identity in Christ and offers a refreshing perspective on finding one's identity in relationship with Jesus rather than external circumstances or accomplishments. The book is divided into three lenses: the sinner lens, the saint lens, and the sufferer lens, each providing a unique perspective on our identity in Christ. Tautges also shares the metaphor of kintsugi, an ancient Japanese art form that repairs broken pottery with gold, symbolizing God's redemptive work in our brokenness.
It is an honor to speak with a man whose contributions to the Christian faith, especially in the realm of biblical counseling and soul care, are so extensive. He has been in gospel ministry for over 30 years and serves as one of the pastors of Cornerstone Community Church in Mayfield Heights, Ohio, which is in the Cleveland area. He is also an adjunct professor at Masters University in California, a certified biblical counselor and teaching fellow for the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors, and a council board member of the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He also serves as editor for the popular LifeLine mini-book series from Shepherd Press and blogs regularly at Counseling One Another, the Biblical Counseling Coalition, and Crosswalk.
Ask him about himself, and he puts it simply: “By God’s grace, I’m a husband, dad, grandpa, and pastor at Cornerstone Community Church in Mayfield Heights, OH. I love Christ because He first loved me.”
Humble, friendly, and approachable, he has written or edited over 60 books and mini-books, including “A Small Book for the Hurting Heart,” the 31-day devotional “Anxiety: Knowing God’s Peace;” then there is “Counseling One Another,” a mainstay in the biblical counseling and soul care world, and, of course, his newest work, “Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ.” 
 
Takeaways
Our identity is not found in external circumstances or accomplishments, but in our relationship with Jesus Christ.
Understanding our identity in Christ is crucial for biblical counseling and soul care.
The book "Remade" explores three lenses of identity: the saint lens, the sinner lens, and the sufferer lens. The order is important.
Suffering is a tool that God uses to sanctify us and conform us to the image of Christ.
 
Scripture Mentioned
1 Thessalonians 5:14
Colossians 1:28
2 Corinthians 7:10
Romans 8:29
1 Peter 4:12-19
Deuteronomy 29:29
 
Warrenism
“Shame from God convicts us of sin and leads to repentance and salvation; toxic shame condemns us for who we are and there is no hope found there.”
 
Additional Resources
 
RELEVANT BOOKS
Gospel Identity: Discovering Who You Really Are (small group guide)
Identity Theft: Reclaiming the Truth of our Identity in Christ (Melissa Kruger, ed.)
Remade: Embracing Your Complete Identity in Christ (Paul Tautges)
Who Am I? Identity in Christ (Jerry Bridges)
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBC)
 
BLOGS
Counseling One Another (Paul Tautges)
Forty-Two Identity Markers for Every Christian (Paul Tautges)
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (pastorlamb.com)

Episode 6 - Dr. Julie Ganschow - Relational Trauma

Episode #5
Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Dr. Julie Ganschow, Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling Center
Topic: Relational Trauma
 
Dr. Julie Ganschow is the Founder and Director of Reigning Grace Biblical Counseling Center based in Liberty, MO. She is also the Founder and Director of Biblical Counseling for Women. ​She has been involved in Biblical Counseling and Discipleship for more than 25 years. A gifted counselor and teacher, Julie specializes in biblically counseling and providing biblical soul care for those suffering from trauma and domestic abuse. She is a frequent retreat and conference speaker.
 
Summary: Dr. Julie Ganschow discusses the topic of relational trauma and its clinical definition. She highlights the subjectivity of trauma and the overdiagnosis of PTSD. The conversation also explores the desensitization to traumatic events in our culture and the minimization of trauma experiences. Dr. Ganschow emphasizes the importance of a biblical perspective on trauma and the need for a holistic approach that addresses both the material and immaterial aspects of a person.
 
Helpful Scripture:
Psalm 8
2 Corinthians 5:17
Books: (by Dr. Ganschow)
“A Biblical Counselor's Approach to Marital Abuse: Roadmap to Reunification” (with Bill Schlacks),  2018
“Seeing Depression Through the Eyes of Grace,” 2016
“A Biblical Understanding of Self-Injury,” 2016
“Living Beyond the Heart of Betrayal: Biblically Addressing the Pain of Sexual Sin,” 2013

Episode 5 - Dr. Mark Shaw - Addiction

Episode #5
Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Dr. Mark Shaw, The AddictionConnection
Topic: Addiction
Dr. Mark Shaw is the founder of The Addiction Connection, a network of Commissioned Addictions Biblical Counselors (CABC) who offer the “Hope of the Gospel for the Heart of Addiction.”
In this episode, Dr. Shaw compares and contrasts the biblical view of addictions with that of the world at large. His redefinition of addiction is more than helpful: it is hope-giving. The discussion delves into the wonderful fruitfulness of the biblical soul care approach to dealing with addictions of all kinds.
Dr. Shaw's definition of addiction: “The persistent habitual thoughts, words, and actions associated with excessive pleasure-seeking which are known by the user to be harmful and physically enslaving, sinful and willful choices to disobey God, whether they acknowledge that or not.”
Helpful Scripture:
Proverbs 18:1
Proverbs 3:5-6
Proverbs 23:29-35 (The addiction cycle)
 
Dr. Shaw’s Books: 
Addiction, General Info
The Heart of Addiction: A Biblical Perspective (2008, 2018)
The Heart of Addiction Workbook (2008)
Cross Talking: A Daily Gospel for Transforming Addicts (2010)
Relapse: Biblical Prevention Strategies (2011)
Understanding Temptation: The War Within Your Heart (2014)
 
For Parents
Addiction-Proof Parenting: Biblical Prevention Strategies (2010)
How Not to Raise an Addict: Biblical Prevention Strategies (2009)
Divine Intervention: Hope and Help for Families of Addicts (2007)
 
Website The Addiction Connection
 
Documentary The Heart of Addiction
 

Episode 4 - Anxiety

Episode #4 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Anxiety
 
Summary
What is anxiety? What causes it? Is there a solution other than medication? In this episode, Dr. Warren Lamb compares and contrasts the clinical approach with the biblical approach and discusses why biblical soul care for anxiety is more viable. Part of the discussion includes a case study of a person who still walks in freedom from debilitating anxiety.
 
Takeaways
Anxiety disorders are characterized by excessive fear and anxiety, often rooted in a lack of trust and belief in God's control and goodness.
Toxic shame and a distorted self-worth can contribute to anxiety, but shifting focus and believing in God's nature and character can help overcome it.
Comparing oneself to others and feeling entitled to a pain-free life can perpetuate anxiety and hinder healing.
Understanding that God is aware of our circumstances and has a greater plan can provide comfort and peace in the midst of anxiety.
Teaching others about self-worth and helping them understand God's love and protection can be a powerful tool in overcoming anxiety. Breathing techniques like box breathing can help take control of the body's response to anxiety.
Medication may not address the underlying causes of anxiety and can have limitations in treating depression and anxiety.
Resiliency factors play a crucial role in preventing ongoing woundedness from traumatic events.
History does not define us, and we have the power to change our beliefs and narrative around anxiety.
 
Scripture Mentioned
Genesis 50:20
 
Warrenisms
“Anxiety is like running around trying to put out fires that have not been lit.”
 
“History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us.”
 
Relevant Links
A Small Book for the Anxious Heart
Help! I’m Anxious!
Help! I Get Panic Attacks
Why Worry?: Getting to the Heart of Your Anxiety
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ
 

Episode 3 - Christine Chappell Interview - Author of Midnight Mercies

Episode #3 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Christine Chappell
 
Summary
Biblical counselor, author, and podcast host Christine Chappell openly shares her personal journey through depression, discussing how her relationship with God and biblical soul care were central to her healing.
The focal point of the discussion centers around her book, 'Midnight Mercies,' wherein she bravely addresses depression and underscores the vital role of God's Word in nurturing the soul. She passionately advocates for the supportive and healing impact of the Christian community during times of crisis, acknowledging the profound mercy of God.
She also reflects on the influences shaping her approach to writing and the delicate balance needed across various life roles. Throughout her insights, she stresses the importance of trusting God's timing and prioritizing self-care. Moreover, Christine highlights the power of authentic storytelling in normalizing conversations about depression – something that is sorely needed.
 
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
Prioritizing self-care and trusting God's timing for maintaining balance in various life roles.
Sharing authentic experiences to destigmatize and normalize the experience of depression.
Redirecting focus from self to glorifying God and embracing His Word for emotional healing.
Recognizing the importance of communal support within the body of Christ for emotional healing.
Encouraging men, particularly husbands and pastors, to engage with 'Midnight Mercies' to better understand and support women experiencing depression.
Advocating for the destigmatization of depression in the Christian experience, acknowledging sorrow and grief without shame.
Christine's forthcoming projects aim to shed light on postpartum depression and offer support for spouses of individuals experiencing depression. 'Midnight Mercies' stands out as a powerful resource to offer hope and guidance, especially to mothers navigating the challenges of depression.
Her courage and ministry are deeply appreciated, concluding with a heartfelt prayer for her continued journey and impactful ministry.
 
Bibliography:
Midnight Mercies: Walking with God Through Depression in Motherhood 
(P&R Publishing, 2023)
Help! I’ve Been Diagnosed with a Mental Disorder
(Shepherd Press, 2021)
Help! My Teen is Depressed
(Shepherd Press, 2020)
Clean Home, Messy Heart: Promises of Renewal, Hope, and 
Change for Overwhelmed Moms
(WestBow Press, 2016)
 
Social Media:
facebook.com/cleanhomemessheart
twitter.com/chappellwrites
instagram.com/christinemchappell
 
Hope + Help Podcast:
christinemchappell.com/podcast
 
Navigating Depression On-Demand Video Workshops:
christinemchappell.com/workshops
 
Warrenism of the Week: “Stop shoulding yourself; shoulding equals shaming.”

Episode 2 - Depression & Suicide

Hosts: Jinda Reinig, Kimberly Willess, and Dr. Warren Lamb
Topic: Depression & Suicide
Summary
This episode’s conversation explores the definition of depression and the diagnostic criteria according to the DSM-5. It also delves into the biblical perspective on depression and the importance of addressing loss and grief in understanding depression.
The conversation highlights the differences between the DSM diagnosis and the biblical perspective on depression, as well as the lack of scientific evidence for serotonin-based depression. It emphasizes the need to address underlying brokenness and unresolved loss rather than relying solely on medication. The conversation also discusses the incomplete training of therapists and clinicians and the importance of identity in Christ in every aspect of life, especially when providing soul care. Included are insights on approaching individuals who have attempted suicide and providing rational conversation to address false beliefs and self-blame for those who have lost someone to suicide.
This conversation explores the topics of depression and suicide, providing insights and guidance for comforting families, understanding the struggles of suicide survivors, and addressing the stigma and misconceptions surrounding suicide. The conversation also delves into questions about the afterlife and the role of faith in crisis situations. It emphasizes the importance of authentic connections, deep community, and authentic biblical soul care in providing hope and help for those battling depression and suicidal thoughts. The chapter titles reflect the main themes discussed in the conversation.
 
Takeaways
Depression needs to be understood from a biblical perspective, especially when a formal clinical diagnosis has been given.
Addressing underlying brokenness and unresolved loss is crucial for healing depression.
Medication alone is not sufficient for treating depression; a holistic approach is what is needed.
The training of therapists and clinicians ought to focus on addressing the root causes of depression.
Approaching individuals who have attempted suicide requires empathy, understanding, and a focus on their spiritual well-being.
Acknowledge the pain and validate the experiences of families affected by suicide.
Understand the struggles of suicide survivors, including self-blame and the search for meaning in the aftermath of suicide.
Challenge the stigma and misconceptions surrounding suicide and provide support to those affected.
Focus on the righteous justice and grace of God when addressing questions about the afterlife, particularly when someone has completed suicide.
Establish anchor points and provide loving truth in soul care to combat depression and suicidal thoughts.
Build authentic connections and engage in a deep, healthy community to recognize hidden depression and provide support.
Recognize the impact of screens and prioritize authentic connections for mental and emotional well-being.
Understand that depression and significant loss are part of the imperfect life we live and seek guidance and support in navigating these challenges.
Honest grieving and addressing unresolved loss are essential for healing from depression.
Identity in Christ and understanding God's plan can provide hope and healing.
Supporting individuals who have attempted suicide requires empathy, understanding, and a focus on their spiritual well-being. Trust in the wisdom, justice, and righteous grace of God when it comes to the possibility of repentance for those who have died by suicide.
Genuine relationships and connections within a healthy Christian community are vital for supporting and caring for one another.
Soul-care provides true hope and help for those struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts.
Authentic biblical soul-care provides true hope and help for those struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts.
Scripture Mentioned
Psalm 139:14
Psalm 34:17-18
 
Warrenism
“We were never created to experience loss. Loss is the most unnatural invasion of God’s creation.”
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ
Serotonin-based Depression: No Empirical Evidence
Suicidal Ideation: A Biblical Perspective for Counselors
Rethinking Depression: Not a Sickness, Not a Sin
Peter Breggin
 
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Soul Care Podcast
01:03 Definition of Depression from DSM-5
04:39 Biblical Perspective on Depression
07:39 Critique of Medication-based Treatment for Depression
10:35 Chronic Depression and Unresolved Loss
13:30 The Need for Honest Grieving
17:11 The Ineffectiveness of Medication for Depression
21:28 The Limitations of Traditional Therapy
25:22 Understanding Loss and God's Plan
29:32 Working through Loss and Identity in Christ
35:13 Addressing Loss and Brokenness in Soul Care
40:11 Comforting Those Who Have Attempted Suicide
45:01 Supporting Suicide Survivors
54:45 The Possibility of Repentance
55:14 Crisis of Faith
55:48 Trusting in God's Wisdom and Grace
57:18 Unconventional Approach to Suicide Counseling
58:17 Soul Care and True Hope
58:46 No Quick Fix for a Crushed Spirit
59:31 Bringing Everything to Light in Soul Care
01:00:29 Acknowledging Pain and Walking in Freedom
01:01:26 Different Types of Depression
01:02:23 The Importance of Healthy Christian Community
01:03:20 Paying Attention to Hidden Sadness
01:04:06 Authentic Relationships and Connections
01:07:28 The Importance of Authentic In-Person Connection
01:08:38 God's Design for Healthy Community
01:09:08 Encouragement from Scripture
01:09:57 Applying the Word to Your Life

Episode 1 - Inaugural Episode

In the inaugural episode, Dr. Warren Lamb joins co-hosts Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess to dive into and explore biblical "soul care." They delve into explaining the soul's essence and its ties to mind, emotions, and will, while emphasizing the intrinsic value of every individual as God's special creation. The conversation explores healing from feelings of worthlessness, trauma, and false beliefs through the power of biblical truth and the support of a healthy community. While cautioning against an overreliance on medication, they advocate for genuine healing and transformation of the whole person.
The discussion also touches on navigating life's hardships—like anxiety and grief—and the significance of seeking support and guidance during tough times. Addressing church-related hurt is highlighted, emphasizing the importance of embodying Christ's character in counseling, and creating a nurturing environment for healing. The episode culminates with a reminder that the goal of everyone involved with The Soul Care Podcast and the Truth in Love ministry team is to speak the truth in love and surrender the outcomes to God in their mission of soul care.
 
Scripture Mentioned
Romans 12:2
Genesis 1:26-27
Genesis 3
Genesis 9:3-6
Psalm 8:3-8
Matthew 6:25-26
Matthew 16:26-27
Luke 15:10
Romans 8:1
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
John 14:15
 
Warrenisms
“You cannot bury a live snake. The problem will always work its way back to the surface.”
“What you believe is what you live.” (What you saturate your mind with is what you believe; what you believe is what you live.)
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center
Peter Breggin
Ritalin Information, general (Several articles)
“Ritalin Gone Wrong” (New York Times opinion piece, 2012)
Dane Ortlund’s “Gentle and Lowly: The Heart of Christ for Sinners and Sufferers”

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