The Soul Care Podcast

Episode 8 - The Bible and Trauma - Warren Lamb

Episode #8 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.
 
Takeaways
Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances.
Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder.
Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3.
The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma.
Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery.
God is present in our suffering and offers hope.
Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care.
The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires.
Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future.
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren's Blog
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Episode 7 - The Sufficiency of Scripture for Counseling - Warren Lamb

Episode #7 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.
 
Takeaways
The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God.
Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith.
Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges.
The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling.
Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides.
The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life.
Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing.
The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies.
Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”

Episode 6 - Recapturing Christian Marriage - Warren Lamb

Episode #6 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love.
Takeaways
Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession.
Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment.
Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples.
Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage.
Communication ought to be gentle and understanding.
God must be at the center of every marriage.
The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters.
Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically.
It's important to change our language about expectations.
Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.
 
Relevant Links
Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."
 

Episode 5 - Military Chaplancy and Biblical Counseling - Dave Peterson

Episode #5 Show Notes
Host:  Kimberly Willess and Dr. warren Lamb
Guest: Dave Peterson
 
Summary
In this conversation, Dave Peterson shares his unique journey from a non-believer in the Navy to becoming a Navy chaplain and then Operations Director for the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He discusses the essence of biblical soul-care, the role of a chaplain, and the challenges faced in the field of biblical counseling today. Dave emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among counselors and highlights emerging trends in biblical soul-care that focus on holistic approaches to mental and spiritual health.
 
Takeaways
Dave Peterson's journey into biblical counseling began after his conversion in the Navy.
Biblical counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview and aims to provide hope and healing.
The essence of soul-care includes confronting sin and encouraging the weak.
Community is vital for counselors to share burdens and find support.
There is a growing tension in defining biblical counseling within the biblical counseling community.
Emerging trends in counseling focus on holistic approaches that integrate physical and spiritual health.
The church is beginning to acknowledge past shortcomings in addressing issues like domestic violence.
Collaboration among different counseling organizations is essential for growth and understanding.
 
Additional Resources
Contact Dave Peterson Dave@biblicalcc.org,
Coastal Church (https://www.gocoastal.org/)
Biblical Counseling Coalition (https://biblicalcc.org)
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (https://tilbcc.com)
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Episode 4 - The Role of Hermeneutics in Soul-Care

Episode #4 Show Notes
Host:  Jinda Reinig, Dr. Warren Lamb
Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho
 
Summary
In this conversation, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses the importance of hermeneutics in biblical counseling and soul-care. He shares his journey from traditional psychological counseling to a reliance on Scripture, emphasizing the sufficiency and clarity of the Bible in addressing mental health issues. The discussion highlights the challenges contemporary churches face in applying biblical principles effectively and the need to properly interpret Scripture to avoid poor hermeneutics that can lead to misunderstanding and spiritual harm. The role of the Holy Spirit in guiding understanding and application of Scripture is also emphasized, along with the importance of equipping church members for effective soul-care.
 
Takeaways
Proper hermeneutics is essential for understanding Scripture correctly.
The sufficiency of Scripture is often questioned in modern counseling.
Clarity of Scripture allows everyone to understand God's Word.
Poor hermeneutics often leads to spiritual and emotional issues.
The Holy Spirit aids in interpreting and applying Scripture.
Understanding context is crucial for proper interpretation.
Churches need to reclaim the role of Scripture in counseling.
Training in hermeneutics boosts confidence in interpreting and applying Scripture.
Pastors must be equipped to address mental health issues biblically.
 
Additional Resources
Faith Bible Church 
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling 
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ 
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation
 

Episode 3 - Whole-Person Ministry - Dr. Warren Lamb

Episode #3 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Kimberly, Jinda, and Warren discuss the Whole-Person Ministry approach to biblical counseling, emphasizing a focus on the combination of physical, emotional, and spiritual health. They explore how foundational beliefs impact counseling practices, the importance of nutrition and gut health, and the need for counselors to consider the whole person in their approach. The conversation highlights the significance of rest, the theology of food, and the role of lifestyle choices in mental, emotional, and spiritual health, ultimately advocating for a holistic view of well-being in counseling.
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
The Whole-Person Ministry approach blends theology, philosophy, and practical anthropology.
Understanding human identity and purpose is crucial for healing.
Physical health significantly impacts emotional and spiritual well-being.
Counselors need to consider diet, rest, and activity in their practice.
Gut health is foundational to overall health.
A biblical “theology of food” connects spiritual and physical nourishment.
Rest is a command, not a suggestion, in Scripture.
Counseling ought to address the whole person, not just parts.
Healthy habits need to be instilled from a young age.
Awareness of nutritional needs can lead to better health outcomes, including counseling outcomes.
 
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Whole-Person Ministry Training
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "Being content in our circumstances is not the same as being content with our circumstances. The first is driven by our trust in God. The latter is driven by our focus on our own desires."
 

Episode 2 - Biblically Understanding Transgenderism - Denise Shick

Episode #2 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Denise Shick
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Denise Shick shares her personal journey and the founding of Help4Families Ministry, which supports families impacted by transgenderism. Denise discusses the profound effects of her father's transition on her childhood and the spiritual warfare surrounding gender identity issues. She highlights the importance of community support, faith-based counseling, and the misconceptions surrounding gender identity. Denise also emphasizes the need for churches to educate themselves on these matters and offers advice for faith leaders. The conversation concludes with Denise's insights on writing children's books to address gender issues from a biblical perspective and her future endeavors.
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
Denise's journey began with her father's desire to transition.
The impact of a parent's transition can be profound on children.
Help4Families Ministry was founded out of the needs of families seeking God’s help with transgender issues.
There has been a significant increase in young girls transitioning in recent years.
Spiritual warfare plays a crucial role in gender identity conflicts.
Community support is essential for healing and recovery.
Misconceptions about gender identity can lead to harmful decisions for the struggler.
Faith leaders need to approach these issues with compassion and understanding.
Denise emphasizes the importance of trusting God in difficult times.
Writing children's books helps address gender issues with children from a biblical perspective.
Bibliography: Adults
Moving Forward in Community: A Bible Study Companion for Moving Forward in Hope: A Devotional for Families of LGBTQ+ Loved Ones
(Independently Published, August 2023)
It is Well with My Soul: Finding God's Peace in the Transgender Storm (Workbook)
(Denise Shick, January 2022)
Moving Forward in Hope: A Devotional for Families of LGBTQ Loved Ones
(Denise Shick, September 2021)
Your True Identity: How Freedom in Christ Brings Healing, Hope, and Wholeness (Denise Shick, April 2021)
Transgender Confusion: A Biblical Based Q& A For Families
(Independently Published, March 2016)
Dangerous Affirmations: “Should I Have Been Daddy’s Little Girl?”
 (Kindle)
(Independently Published, February 2016)
My Daddy's Secret
(Independently Published, October 2015)
When Hope Seems Lost: How to Deal with Transgenderism in the Christian Community
(Independently Published, March 2015)
A Wife's Perspective: A resource for wives who are dealing with their husband’s marital unfaithfulness and sexual compulsions
(Independently Published, June 2014)
 
Bibliography: Children
I Want My Sister Back
(Denise Shick, April 2023)
AMAZING Amanda
(Independently Published, April 2022)
The Boy Who Liked Tea Parties
(Denise Shick, November 2021)
Do SUPERHEROES Play the Piano?
(Independently Published, November 2021)
What's Up with Cousin Stacy?
(Independently Published, October 2020)
I'm Glad God Made Me a Girl
(Independently Published, May 2020)
When Daddy Leaves to Be a Girl
(Independently Published, July 2018
 
Websites
Help4Families
Living Stones Ministries
 
Blog
Help4Families Blog
 
Podcast:
The Transcending Hope Podcast
 
Warrenism of the Week: “Jesus invites us to love Him in response to His love; He does not grab us by the front of the shirt and demand it of us.”
 

Episode 1 - Postpartum Depression - Christine Chappell

Episode #1 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Dr. Warren Lamb
Special Guest: Christine Chappell
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, hosts Jinda Reinig and Warren Lamb welcome back Christine Chappell to discuss her new mini-book on postpartum depression. They explore the importance of sharing personal experiences, the challenges of motherhood, and the need for grace and understanding in the face of struggles. Christine emphasizes the significance of acknowledging both physical and spiritual aspects of mental health, the impact of societal expectations, and the necessity of lamenting and grieving. The conversation highlights the importance of community support and the hope found in God's Word during difficult seasons.
Takeaways
Key takeaways from the discussion include:
Christine's writing is deeply rooted in her personal experiences.
Postpartum depression is a common struggle that needs to be normalized.
Self-talk and societal expectations can heavily influence a mother's mental health.
It's essential to recognize the interplay between physical and spiritual challenges.
Living in the gray area of life is a reality that many face.
Shoulding ourselves leads to toxic shame and unrealistic expectations.
Accepting God's grace and mercy is crucial for healing.
Lamenting and grieving are important aspects of processing pain.
Community support is vital for mothers experiencing postpartum struggles.
 
Bibliography:
Postpartum Depression: Hope for a Hard Season
(New Growth Press, August 2024)
Misericordia En La Oscuridad: Caminando Con Dios a Través de la Depresión En La
Maternidad
(P&R Publishing, 2024)
Midnight Mercies: Walking with God Through Depression in Motherhood 
(P&R Publishing, 2023)
Help! I’ve Been Diagnosed with a Mental Disorder
(Shepherd Press, 2021)
Help! My Teen is Depressed
(Shepherd Press, 2020)
Clean Home, Messy Heart: Promises of Renewal, Hope, and 
Change for Overwhelmed Moms
(WestBow Press, 2016)
 
Social Media:
facebook.com/cleanhomemessheart
twitter.com/chappellwrites
instagram.com/christinemchappell
 
Hope + Help Podcast:
christinemchappell.com/podcast
 
Navigating Depression On-Demand Video Workshops:
christinemchappell.com/workshops
 
Warrenism of the Week: “Stop shoulding yourself; shoulding equals shaming.”
 

Summer Shorts #11 - Team Member Pastor Iljin Cho

Summer Shorts #11 Show Notes
Host:  Jinda Reinig
Guest: Pastor Iljin Cho
 
Summary
In this episode of the Soul Care Podcast, Pastor Iljin Cho discusses his experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. He shares how his wife's positive transformation through biblical counseling drew him to explore it further. Pastor Cho highlights the hope and freedom that Truth in Love offers, emphasizing its trust in the sufficiency of Scripture. He also praises Warren, the founder of Truth in Love, for his mentorship and the positive impact he has had on his life. Overall, Pastor Cho emphasizes the importance of biblical counseling in the church and the need for discipleship.
 
Takeaways
Biblical counseling can bring healing and change, offering hope to those who have struggled with trauma and mental health issues.
Truth in Love trusts in the sufficiency of Scripture and offers a different perspective from traditional counseling organizations.
The belief in freedom in Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit to renew minds is a key aspect of Truth in Love's approach.
Mentorship and guidance from experienced counselors like Warren can have a profound impact on personal growth and ministry.
Biblical counseling challenges the belief that certain sin conditions or effects of sin are permanent, offering the possibility of change and healing.
Warren, the founder of Truth in Love, provides mentorship and guidance that can lead to positive life transformations.
Biblical counseling is essential for discipleship and the development of strong leaders in the church.
 
Sound Bites
"Truth in Love reminds people that it's the role of the Holy Spirit who renews our minds."
"Truth in Love believes that people can be healed. Their sinful desires can change. And they can be free."
 
 
Additional Resources
Faith Bible Church (Sacramento, CA – fbcsacramento.org)
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)

Summer Shorts #10 - Team Member Ellen Castillo

Summer Shorts #10 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess
Guest: Team Member Colleen Meyer
Summary: Ellen Castillo, a TILBCC Certified Biblical Counselor, shares her journey and experience with Truth in Love Biblical Counseling. She also discusses how she found her passion for counseling and the different seasons of life she has served in. Ellen highlights the benefits of being a part of Truth in Love, such as the support and unity of the team, the ability to accept as many cases as she chooses, and the opportunity to serve people from various locations. She also emphasizes the importance of being willing to serve outside the box and shares her personal ministry verse from 1 Peter 3:15.
 
Takeaways
Find a counseling ministry that fits with your current season of life.
Being part of a team provides support and unity in ministry.
Online counseling is a valuable and effective way to serve others.
Being willing to serve outside the box can lead to unexpected blessings.
Stay connected to like-minded people, and be prepared to share the hope that is in you.
 
Additional Resources
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling & Training Center (tilbcc.com)
Unbound: Growing Ever-freer in Christ (TILBCC Discipling Curriculum)
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)