The Soul Care Podcast

Season 2 - Episode 14: Pastor and Author Conrad Hilario

Episode #13 Show Notes
Host: Warren Lamb
Guest: Conrad Hilario
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, pastor and author Conrad Hilario shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a senior pastor, emphasizing the importance of identity in Christ. He discusses the challenges younger generations face in understanding their identity amidst cultural crises and the church's role in providing guidance. The conversation highlights the significance of discipleship and mentorship in spiritual growth and the impact of his book, 'Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes,' as a resource for believers seeking to understand their identity in Christ.
 
Takeaways
Conrad's journey illustrates the transformative power of faith.
Identity in Christ is foundational for spiritual growth.
Younger generations face unique challenges in understanding identity.
Cultural identity crises impact individuals and communities.
Discipleship is essential for nurturing faith in new believers.
Mentorship plays a crucial role in spiritual development.
The church must address issues of diversity and unity.
Understanding one's identity can prevent destructive choices.
Conrad's book serves as a primer for understanding identity in Christ.
Real change in life comes from understanding one's identity in Christ.
 
Relevant Links
Books Mentioned
Identity: Seeing Yourself Through God's Eyes (Conrad Hilario)
Christianity: The Faith That Makes Sense (Dennis McCallum)
Discovering God: Exploring the Possibilities of Faith (Dennis McCallum)
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ (Warren Lamb and Truth in Love)
The Master Plan of Evangelism: With Study Guide (Robert E. Coleman)
The Pursuit of God: Updated Edition (A.W. Tozer)
The Attributes of God Volume 1 with Study Guide: A Journey Into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer)
The Attributes of God Volume 2: Deeper into the Father's Heart (A.W. Tozer)
 
Other Links
Dwell Community Church (Columbus, OH)
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren’s Blog
 
Warrenism of the Week: “Our ‘I am’ statements are identity statements. When we proclaim ‘I am such-and-such…,’ we lock ourselves in a view of ourselves  that may be in conflict with what God proclaims to be true about us.”

Season 2 - Episode 13: Repurposed - A Christmas Message

Episode #13 Show Notes
Host: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this special Christmas episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren shares a personal reflection on the theme of repurposing in life and ministry. Drawing from his own transformative experience following a car accident, he explores how God reshapes our lives and calls us to embrace new purposes. Through biblical passages and personal anecdotes, Warren emphasizes the importance of recognizing interruptions as divine invitations and encourages listeners to reflect on their own journeys of repurposing.
 
Takeaways
God often works by repurposing our lives for His glory.
Don't let your past become your prison; God is doing something new.
Transformation is not just improvement; it's a complete change.
God uses our painful disruptions for His purposes.
Recognizing interruptions can lead to new opportunities.
Our experiences can become sources of comfort for others.
God's repurposing work can be seen in the Christmas story.
We are called to be instruments in the Redeemer's hands.
Embrace the journey of repurposing, even when it's difficult.
God is with us through every transformation we face.
 
 
Relevant Links
Instruments in the Redeemer's Hands: People in Need of Change Helping People in Need of Change (by Paul David Tripp)
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren’s Blog
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: “Don’t let your past be your prison.”

Season 2 - Episode 12: Dr. Curtis Solomon

Episode #12 Show Notes
Host: Warren Lamb
Guest: Dr. Curtis Solomon
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Dr. Curtis Solomon shares his journey into biblical counseling, influenced by his military background and personal experiences. He discusses the importance of integrating faith with trauma healing, the role of the Biblical Counseling Coalition in fostering unity among counselors, and the challenges faced in the field today. Dr. Solomon also addresses the sensitive topic of pornography in marriage, emphasizing the need for resources that guide couples through healing and restoration. He highlights the significance of practical training for the next generation of counselors and reflects on the balance of life and responsibilities.
 
Takeaways
Dr. Solomon's passion for biblical counseling began in 1999.
Military experience shaped his understanding of trauma and counseling.
Biblical counseling offers hope and healing through Christ.
The Biblical Counseling Coalition aims to foster unity among counselors.
Challenges in biblical counseling include questions about integrating secular and biblical methods.
Addressing pornography in marriage requires sensitive and practical resources.
Investing in the next generation of counselors is crucial for the field.
Balancing life responsibilities is a continuous challenge for counselors.
Surprises in the counseling journey include the infighting among counselors.
Biblical counseling is superior to secular methods in addressing trauma.
 
Relevant Links
Books by Dr. Solomon
Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Pornography (by Jenny Solomon)
Redeem Your Marriage: Hope for Husbands Who Have Hurt through Pornography
I Have PTSD: Reorienting after Trauma
 
Related Link
Biblical Counseling Coalition
 
Other Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren’s Blog
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: “We get to choose whether we speak graciously out of understanding or harshly out of ignorance.”

Season 2 - Episode 11: Forgiveness with Warren Lamb

Episode #10 Show Notes
Host: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
This episode of The Soul Care Podcast delves into the complexities of forgiveness within the Christian faith, addressing common misconceptions and providing a clearer understanding of its biblical foundations. The discussion covers three forms of forgiveness: judicial, internal, and relational, emphasizing the importance of confession and repentance. The episode also explores the controversial topic of self-forgiveness and distinguishes between true peacemaking and mere placating. Ultimately, it encourages listeners to embrace God's forgiveness and extend it to others, fostering emotional healing and spiritual growth.
 
Takeaways
Forgiveness is often misunderstood in Christian circles.
Judicial forgiveness is granted by God alone.
Internal forgiveness requires us to forsake revenge.
Relational forgiveness depends on the offender's repentance.
Self-forgiveness is about applying God's principles to ourselves.
Peacemaking is grounded in truth, not denial.
Confession involves accepting full responsibility for one's actions.
Forgiveness is a gift that should not be demanded.
True repentance involves a change of heart and behavior.
Walking in forgiveness allows us to focus on God's grace.
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren’s Blog
Forgiveness: It May Not Work the Way You Think it Does
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
Warrenism of the Week: "Apology-making is not forgiveness-seeking.”

Season 2 - Episode 10: The Who and What of TILBC - Warren Lamb

Episode #10 Show Notes
Host: Kimberly Willess
Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, the conversation explores the origins and development of Truth in Love Biblical Counseling, highlighting its focus on equipping everyday believers for discipleship and soul-care. Warren shares insights into the program's evolution, accessibility, and the philosophy of community and fellowship that underpins their approach. The discussion also touches on the importance of ongoing learning and accountability within the organization, as well as the significance of the name 'Truth in Love.'
 
Takeaways
The organization began as a home fellowship in 2004.
Focus on one-another ministry is central to their mission.
Training programs are designed for everyday believers, not just professionals.
Accessibility of the program is a priority for the organization.
The name 'Truth in Love' reflects the balance of truth and compassion.
Credentialing is available for those who want to be recognized for their training.
Ongoing community and accountability are emphasized through monthly meetings.
The program has evolved to meet the needs of its participants.
Participants can audit classes after graduation for continued learning.
The organization values feedback and ideas from its audience.
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren’s Blog
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "Speak the truth; do it in love; surrender the outcomes.”

Season2 - Episode 9: “Thanksgiving at God’s Table” - Warren Lamb

Episode #9 Show Notes
Host: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this Thanksgiving episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Warren Lamb explores the profound theme of finding one's place at God's Table. He reflects on the contrasting experiences of individuals during the holiday season, emphasizing the weight of expectations and the complexities of family dynamics. Through the story of a woman named Sarah, he illustrates the transformative power of understanding one's blood-bought identity in Christ. Warren shares his personal journey of healing from past trauma and how it has shaped his approach to soul-care. The episode concludes with a call to recognize the unearned belonging in God's family and to extend that hope to others during the holiday season.
 
Takeaways
Thanksgiving can evoke a range of emotions, from joy to grief.
The blood of Jesus creates a place of honor for all.
Soul-care conversations can help individuals find belonging.
Understanding our identity in Christ is transformative.
Family dynamics can complicate holiday experiences.
Healing is possible through recognizing our worth in Christ.
New traditions can be built on God's faithfulness.
The holidays can be a time of redemption and gratitude.
We can offer hope to those struggling during the holidays.
Every soul-care conversation can reflect God's eternal Thanksgiving table.
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren’s Blog
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "Focusing on “have” instead of “lack” gives us access to a heart of gratitude, and it is gratitude that creates contentment.”

Season 2 - Episode 8: The Bible and Trauma - Warren Lamb

Episode #8 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Kimmy are joined once again by our resident soul-care expert Warren Lamb, who explores the intersection of trauma, biblical counseling, and mental health. They discuss how biblical counseling approaches trauma differently from mainstream psychology, emphasizing the normalcy of trauma responses and the importance of understanding suffering through a scriptural lens. The conversation highlights key biblical principles for healing, the role of identity in recovery, and practical strategies for trauma survivors. Warren shares insights on how trauma impacts faith and perception of God, and they conclude with a discussion on the future of biblical counseling in addressing trauma.
 
Takeaways
Trauma is a normal response to abnormal circumstances.
Biblical counseling does not label trauma as a disorder.
Suffering is a part of the human experience post-Genesis 3.
The Bible provides the best framework for understanding and healing from trauma.
Healing is an ongoing process, not a one-time event.
Identity in Christ is crucial for trauma recovery.
God is present in our suffering and offers hope.
Trauma-informed care must be replaced with biblically grounded trauma-wise care.
The body does not “keep the score;” it responds to what the mind believes and the heart desires.
Redemption of trauma is possible, and our history does not define our future.
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Warren's Blog
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "History is not destiny. Our history does not define us; it merely explains us. Our history is not who we are; it is where we are from.”

Season 2 - Episode 7: The Sufficiency of Scripture for Counseling - Warren Lamb

Episode #7 Show Notes
Host: Jinda Reinig
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda and Warren discuss the concept of the sufficiency of Scripture, emphasizing its role as the primary resource for soul care and counseling. They discuss the definition of sufficiency, the authority of Scripture, and how it applies to various life situations. The conversation contrasts secular psychology with biblical counseling, highlighting the importance of relying on Scripture for guidance in mental health and emotional well-being. They also explore the implications of believing in the sufficiency of Scripture and how it can transform lives by providing a clear understanding of identity and purpose in Christ.
 
Takeaways
The Bible is the God-breathed, inerrant, and fully sufficient Word of God.
Sufficiency means nothing else is needed for matters of life and faith.
Scripture addresses all human experiences and challenges.
The authority of Scripture is foundational in counseling.
Psychology often lacks the certainty that Scripture provides.
The focus of biblical counseling is on honoring God, not just improving life.
Understanding one's worth in Christ is crucial for healing.
The church must avoid integrating secular philosophies.
Properly interpreted Scripture properly applied is the primary tool for soul care.
 
Relevant Links
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
Warrenism of the Week: "Biblical counseling is a sacred space we are invited to share with God and the person He has us counseling.”

Season 2 - Episode 6: Recapturing Christian Marriage - Warren Lamb

Episode #6 Show Notes
Hosts: Jinda Reinig and Kimberly Willess
Special Guest: Warren Lamb
 
Summary
In this episode of The Soul Care Podcast, Jinda, Kimmy, and Warren Lamb delve into the complexities of marriage from a biblical historically Christian perspective. They explore the concept of marriage as a stewardship rather than a possession, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection for both singles and couples. The discussion highlights the dynamics of sanctification in marriage, the impact of expectations, and the necessity of effective communication. Listeners are encouraged to seek God's guidance in their relationships and to approach marriage with a heart of service and love.
Takeaways
Marriage is a stewardship, not a possession.
Unsurrendered expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment.
Self-reflection is crucial for both singles and couples.
Sanctification occurs through the challenges of marriage.
Communication ought to be gentle and understanding.
God must be at the center of every marriage.
The heart motive behind marriage decisions matters.
Couples ought to focus on one-anothering each other biblically.
It's important to change our language about expectations.
Finding God as an ally can help navigate marital challenges.
 
Relevant Links
Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling
Unbound: Growing Ever-Freer in Christ
 
Warrenism of the Week: "Marriage is a sacred trust from God that we are in, not something we have."
 

Season 2 - Episode 5: Military Chaplancy and Biblical Counseling - Dave Peterson

Episode #5 Show Notes
Host:  Kimberly Willess and Dr. warren Lamb
Guest: Dave Peterson
 
Summary
In this conversation, Dave Peterson shares his unique journey from a non-believer in the Navy to becoming a Navy chaplain and then Operations Director for the Biblical Counseling Coalition. He discusses the essence of biblical soul-care, the role of a chaplain, and the challenges faced in the field of biblical counseling today. Dave emphasizes the importance of community and collaboration among counselors and highlights emerging trends in biblical soul-care that focus on holistic approaches to mental and spiritual health.
 
Takeaways
Dave Peterson's journey into biblical counseling began after his conversion in the Navy.
Biblical counseling is rooted in a biblical worldview and aims to provide hope and healing.
The essence of soul-care includes confronting sin and encouraging the weak.
Community is vital for counselors to share burdens and find support.
There is a growing tension in defining biblical counseling within the biblical counseling community.
Emerging trends in counseling focus on holistic approaches that integrate physical and spiritual health.
The church is beginning to acknowledge past shortcomings in addressing issues like domestic violence.
Collaboration among different counseling organizations is essential for growth and understanding.
 
Additional Resources
Contact Dave Peterson Dave@biblicalcc.org,
Coastal Church (https://www.gocoastal.org/)
Biblical Counseling Coalition (https://biblicalcc.org)
Truth in Love Biblical Counseling (https://tilbcc.com)
Words Matter: Refining the Conversation (Dr. Warren Lamb – pastorlamb.com)